Some people like to give everyone the benefit of a doubt when they deal with them the first time, and sometimes a second chance is in order, but when is the line crossed to being a “sucker,” or in modern terms a “minion”?
A family site can be inviting to participate on; sharing photos, ideas, humor, and the like. When one of the members states something that the administrator doesn’t agree with, that person is blacklisted and removed from being able to participate. Of course everyone else thinks the removed person is a snob and has dissassociated from them, seemingly making the outcast just that–an outcast of the family.
Walking a thin line is what so many people do on a day-to-day basis, but why? Is it truly necessary to live your life worrying about what others think all the time? Do you not get enough of that at your place of work that you allow your family or friends have the ability as well? Screw that! You’re a fantastic individual, and you need no one’s approval to be yourself!
If you feel like wearing high heels with your shorts, go ahead. There will be complainers, but others will appreciate it. Feel like adding salt to the grapefruit, instead of sugar? Sounds weird, but people do that sometimes. And your Halloween costume–well, you get the picture! Be yourself and as long as you aren’t hurting someone else intentionally, you’ll be fine!
The point is that if someone chooses to ignore you over something unfair, superficial and frivolous, they aren’t worth your positive attitude anyway! Eventually, all that will be left is a pathetic minion awaiting the beck and call of someone telling them what to do and where to scratch. And the commander will be completely in control! Mwah-ha-ha-ha… over brainless dweebs. Hooray!
Spring is here, so it’s time to shed the extra stuff around your house, tone up the ol’ body, and gain some new insight to who you are, and who you deserve to associate with–YOU deserve happiness! Now say it out loud in the mirror and mean it! “I deserve happiness!”
So when you stick your neck out to forgive someone multiple times, and the senseless rejection continues to happen–you’re an idiot! Give it up and find some meaningful friends and family members! Would you rather have a rude and insensitive family member, or a genuinely caring friend? Some people have both, but you need to decide what works for you. Just because someone is family, doesn’t mean you need to be the fool–or a minion! It’s a hard habit to break, but it sure is worth it when you do!